it has been long
Feb. 22nd, 2018 12:14 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
i have finished putting all my things away. it is very strange being alone home here now. i hope i will run into someone who remembers i remember.
japan already looks very different when i can readmost of some of a few of the street signs. in nagoya we were not supposed to leave school without senior older students, and most people at the dorms were changing switch also from other countries. i am not sure where to go to find something good to drink. can i ask one of you someone?
i've been trying to brush up on my japanese, but its definitely more difficult than my practice books. i would like to practice, but if im more understandable in english to people that is okay too. maybe that is easier for people who can speak it?
(ooc: strikethroughs are alternate phrasings or words he couldn't remember that didn't actually make it into the post. italics are things typed in english.)
japan already looks very different when i can read
i've been trying to brush up on my japanese, but its definitely more difficult than my practice books. i would like to practice, but if im more understandable in english to people that is okay too. maybe that is easier for people who can speak it?
(ooc: strikethroughs are alternate phrasings or words he couldn't remember that didn't actually make it into the post. italics are things typed in english.)
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Date: 2018-02-23 11:24 am (UTC)ah, japanese culture among strangers compared to friends is pretty different. if youre friends you dont need to worry about being formal at all!!
jürgen is mr. volk? he seems okay but too serious. i do not get to talk to many of the european players often, most they like to talk to themselves only i think.
im gonna just use japanese here actually. ill message you my number and address privately! i have two weeks before america so its a good time to meet!!
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Date: 2018-02-23 11:59 am (UTC)if the difference is with strangers and friends, how do you tell when you are allowed to not be formal? i think many people i do not know well have told me to use their names, but not everyone that i know has asked.
jürgen volk, yes. i don't talk to him that often either. he's kind of a hardass when it comes to tennis, but he's not an total dick about it. a lot of people on the european circuit think less of japanese players.
its why i was caught off guard when you beat me, way back.they'll probably warm up when you win more.japanese is good. i will save your number and reply quick, so we can meet before you leave.
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Date: 2018-02-23 03:11 pm (UTC)oh it just depends on the person! if people have friendly personalities, you dont have to be formal! just try and match how people are acting towards you at first and youll figure it out. but also dont, like, force yourself!! everyones got their own, uhh... manner? yeah.
"hardass" is a good word to learn. i have got this feeling from them also. but i am going to make sure they stop watching us like lower.
yeah, i told you! send a message to me any time.
[ooc; yeah he forgot to go back to japanese again.]
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Date: 2018-02-25 12:43 pm (UTC)so, it is because of the personality. i thought that maybe because some people have siblings they might also be a reason. i think i will use the names as yagyuu-san taught me and then change if people say i can, if that makes sense?
hardass is a useful term. theres a few real hardasses here in japan as well, but most of them are easier to approach. sort of. i hope you do, especially now that i'm putting money on it.
i sent you a picture to check the number. did it work?
((ooc: he's sent a picture of some flowers))
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Date: 2018-02-25 02:43 pm (UTC)ah yeah, siblings can help? i have a big sister and she and i are pretty similar. maybe others are like that too? following what senpai says and changing it to suit people is probably the best idea, yeah!!
"sort of" is right, but if youve found that youre able to communicate better with them then its probably a good thing. ill make sure to get you some profit, hehe! you can buy me a drink when i get back ★
yup, got it! cute photo, did you take it?
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Date: 2018-02-25 03:08 pm (UTC)i think that if people confused me and the older brother it would be very annoying, but he does not use the same family name. also we do not look alike so much, in hair. yagyuu-san has the good advice. i am glad to still rely on after so much years.
that is good. you will win me the money and then i will let you pick something i can try.
it is what i put next to the window. the apartment is not so full yet, so i wanted something color. good to know the number is right.
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Date: 2018-02-25 04:10 pm (UTC)i didnt know you had a brother, but it doesnt sound like you guys get along?? thats kind of a shame! my sister and i look sort of alike except shes obviously a girl. same hair and eye colours though.
ill keep my recommendations for that, then! seems like you got a few already so thats fine, right?
ooh. you should decorate it with stuff you collect from japanese places you go and itll look more full in no time!
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Date: 2018-02-25 04:57 pm (UTC)i have an older brother. we are not so close, but we might look alike if my hair was short. he is an annoying person, do not think too much about him.
i am very curious what kind of thing akaya-kun will choose. i have a list as well, but it will take a while to get through anyway.
that is a good idea. it will be like a representation of what i am learning about japan.